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01-14-2006, 07:03 PM
What do you think keeps a relationship strong?

Jon Bon Jovi
01-14-2006, 07:24 PM
RESPECT -that to me is the most important, if you don't have respect for a partner it's like "yeah whatever". You should respect them as a person also, not just a partner.

Friendship -That's important too. It's lovely to feel like you are friends and not just "girlfriend and boyfriend"

Trust, Love,

Excitment -You don't want it all the same, no matter how long you have been together it's nice to have abit of spice still there. Romance and shit.

COMUNICATION AND HONESTY!!- lol why is everyone so shit at it? People don't talk about how they feel. So you will be feeling down for someting they have done but you wont tell them waht it is, so you will snap at something really unimportant that has nothing to do with the problem, and so it goes on.


I'll post more if i think of others

01-14-2006, 07:41 PM
You took the words right out of my mouth Jade.

Now take your fucking tongue out too. :)

01-14-2006, 08:06 PM
trust, respect and good head

01-14-2006, 09:24 PM
A mutual respect and love for eachother. Realizing that you will both change
and grow as the years pass, and not wanting someone to remain the same.
Doing little things for eachother everyday, that only the two of you

Jon Bon Jovi
01-14-2006, 09:25 PM
............And good head.

Shady Makaveli
01-14-2006, 11:57 PM

01-14-2006, 11:57 PM
Honesty, fidelity, love

01-15-2006, 01:32 AM
Respect & Honesty:)

01-15-2006, 01:45 AM
trust, respect and good head

werd what he said man

01-15-2006, 02:34 AM
Trust= Most important....otherwise everything falls apart.
Mutual direction..You have to be headed the same way, and committed to work together for that. Sometimes things like "wanting kids" , faith, careers, social life etc can break people apart.
Similar maturity...one mature partner amounts to nothing. If one is willing to overlook mistakes and set up his life and the other is throwing hissyfits and quiting her job every couple months...it disrupts things.

There are other things too, I'm sure.

01-15-2006, 02:35 AM
Beauty,luck and good sex

01-15-2006, 02:38 AM
^ are you serious?? :D

01-15-2006, 02:38 AM
^Yes,very real :)

01-15-2006, 02:41 AM
^ Okay:D:)

01-15-2006, 08:41 AM

01-15-2006, 09:27 AM
2 hours of work out daily will keep a relationship strong

01-15-2006, 10:55 AM

01-15-2006, 09:33 PM
trust,honesty n sex

01-15-2006, 10:00 PM
comunication, trust , respect, compromise
mainly it is a hell of a lot of comunication and compromise, it is very easy to be selfish but it takes a little bit of work to compromise the things you want and comunication is the top of the list, if you don't discuss things ie. what pisses you off, what makes you happy, how you can help your partner be happier etc then the whole relationship starts to crumble and eventually one person will end up feeling resentment or what ever.

01-15-2006, 10:22 PM
Sex is overrated as far as a healthy relationship goes,btw.